Yearning for Something Different

July 18, 2025Cheryl Barenberg

My Jewish journey began over 45 years ago when, as a young woman, I left upstate New York to begin my life in Texas. Little did I know that my journey to Texas would lead me on such a profound Jewish journey. I had decided to pursue a life in Texas and explore all things new, including my Jewish conversion in June 1983. I studied for almost two years with a Conservative rabbi, but something still was off. I was then introduced to the Reform Movement and became involved with a Reform Jewish congregation in Galveston, Texas. As they say, the rest is history. Reform Judaism allowed me to embrace the central beliefs of G-d, Torah, and Israel that aligned with my personal beliefs, as did WRJ’s three pillars of sisterhood, spirituality and social justice.

I got married, joined congregations in various local communities, and raised my children in the Jewish faith. After having a purpose for 30+ years, I found myself yearning for something different and somewhere I could make a difference, not to mention the “empty nest” feelings.  

I became active in my local sisterhood in Southeast Texas and was exposed to Women of Reform Judaism at the first WRJ Southwest district convention in Dallas, Texas. I was hooked. I finally was able to be with a group of like-minded women who came from various walks of life across our vast geographic region. We embraced each other and, of course, we had fun. Involvement with the Southwest District provided me with the tools and experiences necessary to serve in various leadership positions within my sisterhood, my local congregation, on the district board, and eventually on the WRJ North American Board. The vast resources available to mentor women to then set them up for success is something remarkable. Women mentoring, teaching, and leading other women within the Reform Movement is something truly amazing.  I could not be where I am today on the WRJ Board without the experience that brought me to this place and time.

So why serve on the WRJ North American Board? The answer is clear! WRJ’s mission strengthens the voice of women worldwide and empowers them to create caring communities, nurture congregations, cultivate personal and spiritual growth, and advocate for and promote progressive Jewish values. WRJ welcomes anyone who identifies as female, nonbinary or gender fluid, and embraces all who identify as Jewish or have a commitment to the Jewish community. WRJ celebrates the dignity of every person, values diverse identities, and is committed to diversity, equity, and inclusion. WRJ seeks to provide a place where all can experience a sense of belonging as their authentic selves while working to ensure everyone feels welcome.

There are also many benefits to serving on the WRJ Board, including but not limited to:

  • Gaining invaluable experience that will improve and enhance your leadership and public speaking skills
  • Providing input and direction of social justice initiatives for the greater Reform Movement
  • Utilizing your expertise to lead and participate in WRJ workshops, committees and more
  • Have input in WRJ priorities and projects  
  • Participate in the future direction of the Reform Movement
  • Connect and build a community with diverse women that reflects progressive Jewish values

I know everyone’s Jewish journey looks different. So, if you are looking for a way to experience personal growth and support worthwhile projects that will have an impact on today’s society, consider applying for the WRJ North American Board. Applications open July 15, 2025, and will remain open until October 15, 2025.  

As Chair of the Nominating Committee, the Committee and I look forward to reviewing Board applications and conducting interviews later this year. Service on the WRJ Board has enriched my life, and I know it can enrich yours, too. Apply for WRJ Board service, you won’t be disappointed! 

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